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Get Out the Way

Ludacris was right. Move, bitch! Get out da way! It’s what I want to say to myself right now. Why, as humans, do we get in our own way so much? We know the things we need to do and yet, we avoid them. I know what will make me feel my best. Get good Continue reading
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Memories aka a Depressing Holiday Weekend

Growing up, my family was very close. It was not uncommon for my mom to load up my sisters and me to visit our grandparents or aunts and uncles. We would often get together, all of us, for family dinners and holidays. They are the memories I cherish. I will always be sad that my Continue reading
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Random Writing Practice

It was muggy this June morning. The air sticky, clinging to her skin, making breathing more of a chore than it should be. There was a faint drip, drip, drip through the metal ceiling, landing in a plop onto the worn carpet behind her. She cursed the leaking ceiling and feared what it would cost Continue reading
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The Path Not Taken

Tonight, I went for a rare solo walk and found my mind wandering. It drifted through the “what if’s? I sometimes ponder. I suspect it is only natural to consider the path not taken in life. While I do not have many regrets, I wonder if I had zigged instead of zagged in different areas Continue reading
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Day One

Today feels like day one for me. It’s the first day since before my trip that I woke up feeling rested. While I had grand intentions of being up by 6 am and having a quiet, slow first hour of my day entirely to myself, I got up at 7:45 am instead. That is still Continue reading
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The Struggle Bus
Lately, I have been on the struggle bus. I seem to have a season pass if we’re being honest. I went on my first international trip at the end of April and was home by May 3rd. Technically, there were airport delays (Thanks, JFK!), and it was Saturday morning, May 4th. The trip was great, Continue reading
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When Does it Feel Real?
When does it feel real? This question has haunted me for at least half of my life. I remember reading oodles of books as a kid and watching classic TV shows like Growing Pains, Saved by the Bell, Just the Ten of Us, Family Matters, or Beverly Hills 90210. The books, TV shows, and even Continue reading
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Welcome

Welcome to Love Hard, Laugh Harder. I’ve been blogging off and on for more than a decade now. However, as I evolve, I’ve found that the “label” I’ve chosen for myself in terms of a blog name, becomes something I outgrow. Being the weirdo I am, the less I can identify with the name, the Continue reading
